Family Support

Family Support

Sticking to an educational plan and properly managing one’s fiscal matters are two key factors in student success.  However, there is a third that is equally, and may be even more so, important than either planning or money.

Family Support has been shown to be an integral factor in student success.  Students who are the first in their families to attend college face a steep learning curve and adjustment period when stepping on campus.  They will encounter new expectations that are often not fully explained or may be written down in obscure places.  If a student’s family or community supports their college going endeavor then that encouragement has been shown to give students the boost in confidence they need to overcome obstacles.

Some families want to support their student’s collegiate dreams, but also hamper them with requirements that they work to support their families, help out with smaller children still at home, or convey that college is an expensive way to gain employment, and thus, a waste of time.  Students who have to manage these attitudes in addition to their new environment often do not perform as well as their peers.

The greatest gift you can give your child, spouse, or community member who is attending college is your support free from major worries at home.  A student who is free from distraction has a greater chance to focus on their demanding studies.  Although it may be an adjustment for all, it is best for everyone if previous home/community responsibilities are released from a student.  If the student is a working adult then the pressures of attending school and work will be need to be offset by having his or her family pick up some of the functions he or she performed prior to going back to school.  Otherwise the student may not only not graduate, but may eventually hold resentment toward those who at home.  Pursuing an education is one of the most rewarding endeavors on which one can embark.  Family and community members can do their part by wholeheartedly supporting their loved ones.

Plan Your Work and Work Your Plan

Higher education is not the same as primary or secondary education.  At this level everyone expect you to be an adult who is fully autonomous.  That means you are responsible for everything in your student handbook and syllabi.  These are contracts between you and the institution.  Read them carefully.  As an admissions officer, I have met many a student who is upset because they have a charge on their bill that an institution has stated it will charge, but yet the student was unaware.  You are responsible for checking into how well a school supports its students, how often faculty are available, what type of accreditation the school has, graduation rates, and many other aspects of college life.  Be sure to see the student life office and your advisor if you are unsure.  It is better to ask upfront than to find out down the line.

This story from Inside Higher Education epitomizes why it is important to do your homework:

Now that you have decided where you want to go you should make a plan to graduate.  College is definitely a place where you can explore and learn new things, but the end goal is to graduate with letters behind your name.  Leaving college with student loan debt and no degree is wholly a difficult place in which to be.  Or what could be even worse is having the need to borrow extra loan money because you need to complete extra degree requirements.  Planning for your collegiate years can mean different things for different types of students, but there are essentials that can apply to anyone.  Ask yourself: will I need to work while I am in school, and if so will that hamper my progress; what exactly are my degree requirements; how often are my required classes offered; and do my classes meet on days and times that I can arrive on time and ready to work?

College is a marathon of endurance and stamina, and planning out each step of the way will keep you on track to graduate on time!


You  have made it into a college or university. Now what?  Successfully graduating from college takes not only applying yourself academically, but also knowing how higher education works.  First Generation UniversityTM is here to help explain what each of the various offices on a college campus does, and answer your questions about college life.  Check back often for updates!